The majority of couples are made up of two communication styles


One partner has a more emotional “hot” style of communication
(Anxious Attachment)

The other has a more rational “cool” reserved style of communication
(Avoidant Attachment)

They often get stuck in this common reoccurring communication dynamic


“Hot Communicator”

 Brings up an issue and express some form of insatisfaction or desire for something to be different 

“Cool Communicator”

Get defensive, to them it feels like an attack and wonder why there always seems to be a “problem”

“Hot Communicator”

Feels frustrated that they can't just try and understand and show they care. They respond from the rising intensity of emotions they experience

“Cool Communicator”

Feels cornered and either wait for the “storm” to pass, walks out or minimises what's being said in an attempt to get out of the conversation

When the conversation ends…

You both feel misunderstood and disconnected. The tension and distance that follows these episodes is painful and drains your energy.

Does this sound familiar?

This masterclass will help you to navigate this common dynamic so you can replace conflicts with constructive conversations that leave you both feeling understood, connected and like a team again. 

*You don't have to be in a current relationship to benefit from this

Join Us on May 4th

You will learn more about…


⊚ The difference between your partners and your communication style and how this affects your conversations

⊚ The universal communication dynamic that underlies arguments between these two styles of communication

⊚ The common past pains and traumas that get triggered and keep couples stuck in this destructive communication dynamic

⊚ How to break the repeated pattern of arguments by working with these past pains and emotional triggers 

⊚ Some quick win strategies to make difficult conversations a lighter and easier to navigate 

This will enable you to…


⊚ Avoid needless tension triggered by misinterpretations

⊚ Give you and your partner the experience of feeling deeply understood

⊚ Navigate challenging conversations with more ease, compassion and harmony

⊚ Develop more awareness of what’s behind the emotional triggers and how to reduce their intensity

⊚ Break free from repetitive arguments


Join Us on May 4th

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